I knew that I was Gay before I was five, even though I had no clue that Gay was anything that a person could be!
Evolutionary Psychologists propose that behavior that can reduce the chance of the individual’s survival, such as extreme altruism, may enhance the survival of his genes when this behavior enhances the survival of enough of his close relatives. Just as the animal body may be seen as a group of single-celled organisms a larger group of animals may become the unit of survival for evolutionary purposes. My thesis is that a group of maybe forty people could benefit substantially from the inclusion of a few independent persons that are free to explore, experiment and ponder because they have no parental nor spousal responsibilities. So that we “propagate” by being an advantage to the larger group; the apparent constancy of the “10%” throughout history tells me that Homosexuality is in the Human genome.
I like to imagine that the first person(s) that tamed fire were Gay.
I attribute homophobia to the fact that, having some freedom to think, we are a danger to the religious hierarchies, who have built homophobic hysteria upon the unconscious jealousy of freedom and fear of difference that plague every people. Note also that the religious hierarchies have drawn homosexuals into themselves, saying in effect, “join our inner circle, where we can control and hide you, or be condemned”. And have ruled that even a hint that gays and pedophiles in the Church are ever anything but celibate is blasphemy.