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            <title><![CDATA[The Version of You I Waited For Showed Up But Not For Me]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/activated-thinker/the-version-of-you-i-waited-for-showed-up-but-not-for-me-6d605f988324?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/716/1*9O5xVF67o5Eo5EqSsf0gWA@2x.jpeg" width="716"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I&#x2019;m Jealous. And I&#x2019;m Not Ashamed to Say It.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/activated-thinker/the-version-of-you-i-waited-for-showed-up-but-not-for-me-6d605f988324?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Activated Thinker »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2026 17:38:06 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Stopped Texting First to See If She Would. It Worked. That Was the Problem.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/i-stopped-texting-first-to-see-if-she-would-it-worked-that-was-the-problem-51743992e994?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/680/1*yV8bPp029C1Pg60dOZas8w@2x.jpeg" width="680"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">A test you pass doesn&#x2019;t tell you what you think it does.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/i-stopped-texting-first-to-see-if-she-would-it-worked-that-was-the-problem-51743992e994?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 04:32:07 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why I Stopped Chasing Relationships and Started Protecting My Peace]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@asuquokevin2003/why-i-stopped-chasing-relationships-and-started-protecting-my-peace-f0fc00ba5d44?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1184/1*k0T9Ik88rftC_ns_gulMwA@2x.jpeg" width="1184"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Letting go of what drains you and making space for what heals you</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@asuquokevin2003/why-i-stopped-chasing-relationships-and-started-protecting-my-peace-f0fc00ba5d44?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 09:35:22 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Stop Chasing People Who Are Fine Living Without You]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/stop-chasing-people-who-are-fine-living-without-you-96bd03e6297c?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/768/1*Cybb_iTjUPqZB-StSUAPgw@2x.jpeg" width="768"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Their Silence Is Your Answer. Stop Waiting for One That Will Never Come.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/stop-chasing-people-who-are-fine-living-without-you-96bd03e6297c?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 04:56:31 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Version of You I Waited For Showed Up But Not For Me.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/the-version-of-you-i-waited-for-showed-up-but-not-for-me-46d344c4fdbc?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/716/1*9eWICf1Yz57pYRm0CYc9XQ@2x.jpeg" width="716"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I&#x2019;m Jealous. And I&#x2019;m Not Ashamed to Say It.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/the-version-of-you-i-waited-for-showed-up-but-not-for-me-46d344c4fdbc?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2026 04:10:57 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Someone Needs to Explain the Logic of Leaving Someone and Expecting Them to Still Be There.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/someone-needs-to-explain-the-logic-of-leaving-someone-and-expecting-them-to-still-be-there-a048d1a0bbad?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/688/1*4dWoTJ8Uz7CrNzc37g1_IA@2x.jpeg" width="688"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I don&#x2019;t understand it. Let me tell you why.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/someone-needs-to-explain-the-logic-of-leaving-someone-and-expecting-them-to-still-be-there-a048d1a0bbad?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2026 01:29:31 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Seeing Other Writers Succeed Used to Make Me Feel Two Things at Once.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/seeing-other-writers-succeed-used-to-make-me-feel-two-things-at-once-f5997e81ee55?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/675/1*a0YyX8rq9zu5RKMMfmHgEg@2x.jpeg" width="675"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Excited about what&#x2019;s possible. Disappointed in where I was. Here&#x2019;s what I learned to do with both.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/seeing-other-writers-succeed-used-to-make-me-feel-two-things-at-once-f5997e81ee55?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2026 06:34:08 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[One of the Most Painful Things You’ll Ever Do Is Walk Away From Someone You Still Love.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/one-of-the-most-painful-things-youll-ever-do-is-walk-away-from-someone-you-still-love-bc5c395ec8f4?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/768/1*Cybb_iTjUPqZB-StSUAPgw@2x.jpeg" width="768"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Not because they were bad. Because you finally admitted you were the only one trying.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/one-of-the-most-painful-things-youll-ever-do-is-walk-away-from-someone-you-still-love-bc5c395ec8f4?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2026 06:07:53 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I’m Not Going to Fix Something I Didn’t Break.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/im-not-going-to-fix-something-i-didn-t-break-44310001151e?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*aXtVeHi3jbVMIH8LulSE8w@2x.jpeg" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">There&#x2019;s a difference between accountability and accepting blame for things that weren&#x2019;t yours.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/im-not-going-to-fix-something-i-didn-t-break-44310001151e?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Write A Catalyst »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 05:42:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[There Are Three Sides to Every Breakup. The Truth Is Usually Somewhere Nobody Wants to Look.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/activated-thinker/there-are-three-sides-to-every-breakup-the-truth-is-usually-somewhere-nobody-wants-to-look-8f097599a377?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*aXtVeHi3jbVMIH8LulSE8w@2x.jpeg" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">She said I didn&#x2019;t love her enough. She wasn&#x2019;t entirely wrong. But she wasn&#x2019;t entirely right either.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/activated-thinker/there-are-three-sides-to-every-breakup-the-truth-is-usually-somewhere-nobody-wants-to-look-8f097599a377?source=rss-4d3263e3dd6a------2">Continue reading on Activated Thinker »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2026 14:26:19 GMT</pubDate>
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